The correct way to ask is keep your racism to yourself . Don’t talk to us . Don’t look at us . Don’t speak to us until you fix your racism . Race was invented by Europeans to advantage themselves. For those of us who accept science and reality you clinging like a scared child to the concept of race is annoying at best. I can guarantee you as someone who was raised by white people. I’m over white men like you entirely. When you guys walk up to me thinking I’m going to find you attractive just know I’m secretly thinking about how quickly I can get away from you. Not all white men are like you and I’m best friends with plenty of them. But the white men like you bring all the others down so please stop tarnishing my white male friends reputations for the sake of your ego, thanks.