This is kind of strange for me to read. I never considered that dating white men would need to be explained or studied. I recognize that socialization is a real thing but I think what feels strange is that you are writing advice to white men from your own set of assumptions that white men need to be told these things. Yes on average they are less involved in issues that affect non white people. I just don’t feel like that if a romantic partner had to be told to see my humanity from a checklist first that I’d want them trying to date me.