While I am extremely fed up with Red Pill bros in particular. I do know of a situation where someone does unfortunately act like this.
He’s probably one of the only people I think has a good reason to start out with. While he doesn’t check off the more violent or selfish behaviors on this list. He does often work a slew of jobs and also is an emotionally immature partner.
He is sort of proverbially stuck at the emotional age of a fourteen year old. He is behind in his emotional maturation. When he was thirteen on his way home from church a youth pastor offered him a ride home and assaulted him.
As many have pointed out the problem with many of these situations is a lack of discipline. So for a few months after this event. He started acting out around his town. He was on a dangerous path. His parents realized this and decided to actually do something about it.
But the something they did about it ended up almost completely cementing the personality disorder he struggled with in his early twenties.
They sent him to a camp overseas. He was there for 2 years without any contact with his parents. Then another year with little to no contact. So during the most formative years of a man’s personality from 13-17. He was sort of abandoned by his parents overseas. Where he was brutally assaulted by other teenage boys who were there for real reasons as well.
On top of this the staff at the facility has had a class action brought against them. They were putting bleach in the water but at too high concentrations as well as using water torture on the teenagers there. I know one other girl that came out of this camp. She was sent there because her dad was touching her. She is emotionally stuck at about 9 years old. This camp cost the parents around 50k a year. So you can guess the demographic that could afford to send their kids there.
There’s a documentary on HBO that talks about these camps. But his specific camp the documentary is on Showtime. It’s called, “Kidnapped for Christ”
I know his situation is unique but I do need to share it because the people who meet him now in his 30s see only two parents who appear very kind. Constantly supporting their son while he acts out, has trouble keeping jobs etc.
I see him struggle with chemical reactions in his body around the time of year of his assaults. Many people have things to say about his behavior but they don’t know the root cause. He’s sort of forced to say, “I was sent to a camp”. He doesn’t go into detail and he has severe PTSD. It’s very sad to watch him try do well for a few months then completely lose his sanity during those few months of the year. He has even had procedures done to try and connect the hemispheres of his brain which the trauma split and atrophied.
On the outside he looks like he had everything he wanted growing up. That he was spoiled and is beyond fortunate. But they don’t know whole the story. Whenever I see people behaving the way you mentioned above I tend to see severe childhood trauma before I assume they are just terrible people who can’t “get it together.”
42 million U.S adults report being sexually abused children. Let’s not forget that a large part of the U.S population is suffering from PTSD and trauma often so horrifying we can’t even imagine .
